James Lehman (author "The Total Transformation Program")

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Recordings

NameArtistISRCsRatingLengthRelease groups
'Anger With An Angle' (Characteristic #7)James Lehman
3:18
'Casing' (Characteristic #12)James Lehman
2:37
'Concrete Transactions' (Characteristic #5)James Lehman
3:22
'Dishonesty & Mis-Information' (Characteristic #13)James Lehman
2:06
'False Apologies' (Characteristic #14)James Lehman
1:33
'One-Way Role Models' (Characteristic #9)James Lehman
1:04
'One-Way Training' (Characteristic #8)James Lehman
0:51
'Partialization' (Characteristic #16)James Lehman
3:18
'Pride In Negativity' (Characteristic #6)James Lehman
1:18
'The Put Off, "I'll Do It Tomorrow."' (Characteristic #11)James Lehman
1:07
'The Turnaround' (Characteristic #15)James Lehman
1:57
'Wishful Thinking' (Characteristic #10)James Lehman
1:42
(Ineffective Parenting Role #1) OvernegotiatorJames Lehman
9:25
Accept Bad Moods and Bad DaysJames Lehman
4:52
Accept No Excuse For AbuseJames Lehman
0:51
Act As If...James Lehman
1:27
All-Or-Nothing Thinking ("Always" Or "Never")James Lehman
0:41
Alternative Response ProcessJames Lehman
0:43
An Example Of The Alt.Resp. ProcessJames Lehman
10:13
Assume ControlJames Lehman
2:50
AssumingJames Lehman
0:54
AwfulizingJames Lehman
0:37
Be A Role ModelJames Lehman
1:08
Be An Empowered ParentJames Lehman
1:45
Be Clear About Your ValuesJames Lehman
1:13
Be the parent your child NEEDS.James Lehman
2:48
Behavior Problems Stemming From DivorceJames Lehman
9:54
Behavior/Emotional BlackmailJames Lehman
1:59
Bottomless PocketsJames Lehman
6:36
Characteristics & Practices Of Kids With Obnoxious & Abusive BehaviorJames Lehman
1:23
Choose Your Fights Carefully, And Win The Ones You ChooseJames Lehman
2:05
CommunicateJames Lehman
1:37
ConclusionJames Lehman
1:30
Conclusion of Ineffective Parenting StylesJames Lehman
3:31
Constructive Self-TalkJames Lehman
7:00
Creating a Culture of AccountabilityJames Lehman
3:26
CueingJames Lehman
2:39
Demand And Expect ComplianceJames Lehman
0:38
Develop Status LevelsJames Lehman
1:46
Diminish The PotentialJames Lehman
4:02
DisconnectJames Lehman
3:55
Disconnect (Don't Argue)James Lehman
1:17
Disrespectful, Abusive & Obnoxious Behavior Is Not Caused By Low Self-EsteemJames Lehman
2:41
Do Kids Pickup On Parents Who Think It's Their Fault?James Lehman
1:54
Do, Not SayJames Lehman
2:15
Don't Hold Your BreathJames Lehman
0:31
Embracing NegativityJames Lehman
1:13
Emotionalizing (Feelings Aren't Factual Or True)James Lehman
1:16
Esteem: Hold Your Child In High RegardJames Lehman
1:16
ExcusesJames Lehman
0:45
False Self-PerceptionJames Lehman
1:42
Focus on the BehaviorJames Lehman
2:53
Give Basic DirectionJames Lehman
1:06
Give ConsequencesJames Lehman
2:01
Halt OverstimulationJames Lehman
3:40
Harmless Humor Never Hurts (No Sarcasm)James Lehman
0:52
Helping A Child Cope With His Problems AppropriatelyJames Lehman
2:50
Hypodermic FocusJames Lehman
1:39
Identify The Trigger ThoughtJames Lehman
2:54
Identify Thinking Errors And ExcusesJames Lehman
1:48
Implement It (Right Now)James Lehman
0:53
Injustice: 'It Just Isn't Fair' (Characteristic #2)James Lehman
1:43
Introduce This Process During Calm TimesJames Lehman
1:19
IntroductionJames Lehman
1:13
IntroductionJames Lehman
1:40
IntroductionJames Lehman
10:22
IntroductionJames Lehman
1:09
IntroductionJames Lehman
1:41
Introduction To Faulty Thinking PatternsJames Lehman
1:29
Introduction To The Trigger Management ProcessJames Lehman
1:22
Introduction: 27 Tools You Can UseJames Lehman
1:45
It's not just a phase.James Lehman
0:53
Kids With ChallengesJames Lehman
2:12
Limit-Setting RoleJames Lehman
14:58
Manage The SituationJames Lehman
1:28
Martyr (I'll do the work for him)James Lehman
6:21
MinimizationJames Lehman
1:20
More On Faulty ThinkingJames Lehman
2:12
Move OnJames Lehman
1:07
No SpeechesJames Lehman
3:30
Parents Blame Themselves For Their Child's BehaviorJames Lehman
6:00
Perfectionist (Nothing's ever good enough)James Lehman
3:35
Personalizing (Taking Things Personally)James Lehman
0:27
Problem Solving RoleJames Lehman
20:26
ProjectionsJames Lehman
0:53
Realization // Conclusion Of Disc 4James Lehman
2:22
Redirect InterestJames Lehman
0:57
Replacement And ReciprocityJames Lehman
2:02
Rule DeflationJames Lehman
1:18
Savior (Insulating child from his consequences.)James Lehman
3:53
ScreamerJames Lehman
2:40
Scripted for the Next TimeJames Lehman
3:03
Self Disclosure to the ChildJames Lehman
4:16
Simple PlanJames Lehman
1:55
Sincere Self-DelusionJames Lehman
0:54
Step 1: Investigate (Ask Him What He Saw)James Lehman
0:57
Step 2: Confront (Meet It Head On, Honestly)James Lehman
1:28
Step 3: Identify The Triggers Preceeding The MisbehaviorJames Lehman
2:53
Step 4: Challenge The TriggersJames Lehman
2:50
Step 5: Declare (Tell The Kid To Stop.)James Lehman
1:08

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