'Anger With An Angle' (Characteristic #7) | James Lehman | | | 3:18 | |
'Casing' (Characteristic #12) | James Lehman | | | 2:37 | |
'Concrete Transactions' (Characteristic #5) | James Lehman | | | 3:22 | |
'Dishonesty & Mis-Information' (Characteristic #13) | James Lehman | | | 2:06 | |
'False Apologies' (Characteristic #14) | James Lehman | | | 1:33 | |
'One-Way Role Models' (Characteristic #9) | James Lehman | | | 1:04 | |
'One-Way Training' (Characteristic #8) | James Lehman | | | 0:51 | |
'Partialization' (Characteristic #16) | James Lehman | | | 3:18 | |
'Pride In Negativity' (Characteristic #6) | James Lehman | | | 1:18 | |
'The Put Off, "I'll Do It Tomorrow."' (Characteristic #11) | James Lehman | | | 1:07 | |
'The Turnaround' (Characteristic #15) | James Lehman | | | 1:57 | |
'Wishful Thinking' (Characteristic #10) | James Lehman | | | 1:42 | |
(Ineffective Parenting Role #1) Overnegotiator | James Lehman | | | 9:25 | |
Accept Bad Moods and Bad Days | James Lehman | | | 4:52 | |
Accept No Excuse For Abuse | James Lehman | | | 0:51 | |
Act As If... | James Lehman | | | 1:27 | |
All-Or-Nothing Thinking ("Always" Or "Never") | James Lehman | | | 0:41 | |
Alternative Response Process | James Lehman | | | 0:43 | |
An Example Of The Alt.Resp. Process | James Lehman | | | 10:13 | |
Assume Control | James Lehman | | | 2:50 | |
Assuming | James Lehman | | | 0:54 | |
Awfulizing | James Lehman | | | 0:37 | |
Be A Role Model | James Lehman | | | 1:08 | |
Be An Empowered Parent | James Lehman | | | 1:45 | |
Be Clear About Your Values | James Lehman | | | 1:13 | |
Be the parent your child NEEDS. | James Lehman | | | 2:48 | |
Behavior Problems Stemming From Divorce | James Lehman | | | 9:54 | |
Behavior/Emotional Blackmail | James Lehman | | | 1:59 | |
Bottomless Pockets | James Lehman | | | 6:36 | |
Characteristics & Practices Of Kids With Obnoxious & Abusive Behavior | James Lehman | | | 1:23 | |
Choose Your Fights Carefully, And Win The Ones You Choose | James Lehman | | | 2:05 | |
Communicate | James Lehman | | | 1:37 | |
Conclusion | James Lehman | | | 1:30 | |
Conclusion of Ineffective Parenting Styles | James Lehman | | | 3:31 | |
Constructive Self-Talk | James Lehman | | | 7:00 | |
Creating a Culture of Accountability | James Lehman | | | 3:26 | |
Cueing | James Lehman | | | 2:39 | |
Demand And Expect Compliance | James Lehman | | | 0:38 | |
Develop Status Levels | James Lehman | | | 1:46 | |
Diminish The Potential | James Lehman | | | 4:02 | |
Disconnect | James Lehman | | | 3:55 | |
Disconnect (Don't Argue) | James Lehman | | | 1:17 | |
Disrespectful, Abusive & Obnoxious Behavior Is Not Caused By Low Self-Esteem | James Lehman | | | 2:41 | |
Do Kids Pickup On Parents Who Think It's Their Fault? | James Lehman | | | 1:54 | |
Do, Not Say | James Lehman | | | 2:15 | |
Don't Hold Your Breath | James Lehman | | | 0:31 | |
Embracing Negativity | James Lehman | | | 1:13 | |
Emotionalizing (Feelings Aren't Factual Or True) | James Lehman | | | 1:16 | |
Esteem: Hold Your Child In High Regard | James Lehman | | | 1:16 | |
Excuses | James Lehman | | | 0:45 | |
False Self-Perception | James Lehman | | | 1:42 | |
Focus on the Behavior | James Lehman | | | 2:53 | |
Give Basic Direction | James Lehman | | | 1:06 | |
Give Consequences | James Lehman | | | 2:01 | |
Halt Overstimulation | James Lehman | | | 3:40 | |
Harmless Humor Never Hurts (No Sarcasm) | James Lehman | | | 0:52 | |
Helping A Child Cope With His Problems Appropriately | James Lehman | | | 2:50 | |
Hypodermic Focus | James Lehman | | | 1:39 | |
Identify The Trigger Thought | James Lehman | | | 2:54 | |
Identify Thinking Errors And Excuses | James Lehman | | | 1:48 | |
Implement It (Right Now) | James Lehman | | | 0:53 | |
Injustice: 'It Just Isn't Fair' (Characteristic #2) | James Lehman | | | 1:43 | |
Introduce This Process During Calm Times | James Lehman | | | 1:19 | |
Introduction | James Lehman | | | 1:13 | |
Introduction | James Lehman | | | 1:40 | |
Introduction | James Lehman | | | 10:22 | |
Introduction | James Lehman | | | 1:09 | |
Introduction | James Lehman | | | 1:41 | |
Introduction To Faulty Thinking Patterns | James Lehman | | | 1:29 | |
Introduction To The Trigger Management Process | James Lehman | | | 1:22 | |
Introduction: 27 Tools You Can Use | James Lehman | | | 1:45 | |
It's not just a phase. | James Lehman | | | 0:53 | |
Kids With Challenges | James Lehman | | | 2:12 | |
Limit-Setting Role | James Lehman | | | 14:58 | |
Manage The Situation | James Lehman | | | 1:28 | |
Martyr (I'll do the work for him) | James Lehman | | | 6:21 | |
Minimization | James Lehman | | | 1:20 | |
More On Faulty Thinking | James Lehman | | | 2:12 | |
Move On | James Lehman | | | 1:07 | |
No Speeches | James Lehman | | | 3:30 | |
Parents Blame Themselves For Their Child's Behavior | James Lehman | | | 6:00 | |
Perfectionist (Nothing's ever good enough) | James Lehman | | | 3:35 | |
Personalizing (Taking Things Personally) | James Lehman | | | 0:27 | |
Problem Solving Role | James Lehman | | | 20:26 | |
Projections | James Lehman | | | 0:53 | |
Realization // Conclusion Of Disc 4 | James Lehman | | | 2:22 | |
Redirect Interest | James Lehman | | | 0:57 | |
Replacement And Reciprocity | James Lehman | | | 2:02 | |
Rule Deflation | James Lehman | | | 1:18 | |
Savior (Insulating child from his consequences.) | James Lehman | | | 3:53 | |
Screamer | James Lehman | | | 2:40 | |
Scripted for the Next Time | James Lehman | | | 3:03 | |
Self Disclosure to the Child | James Lehman | | | 4:16 | |
Simple Plan | James Lehman | | | 1:55 | |
Sincere Self-Delusion | James Lehman | | | 0:54 | |
Step 1: Investigate (Ask Him What He Saw) | James Lehman | | | 0:57 | |
Step 2: Confront (Meet It Head On, Honestly) | James Lehman | | | 1:28 | |
Step 3: Identify The Triggers Preceeding The Misbehavior | James Lehman | | | 2:53 | |
Step 4: Challenge The Triggers | James Lehman | | | 2:50 | |
Step 5: Declare (Tell The Kid To Stop.) | James Lehman | | | 1:08 | |